Tuesday, December 22, 2009

thought of the day.361

The journey is the destination. Enjoy the route.

16 comments:

Unknown said...

I find that somewhat depressing.

If I'm going to struggle through a bunch of obstacles, I sure want to be getting somewhere. Otherwise I'd rather just stay at home and not bother with it.

john evans said...

But isn’t it the truth? I mean, no matter what goal you may reach, it is just a resting point along the way (though it may very well be worthy of celebrating of course).

But there is no final destination. Just a continuous journey. The journey is the destination if you will. So I am reminded to savor every step as best I can. I appreciate the moment more knowing there is no place—no magical destination, no eternity of bliss. This moment is it.

Unknown said...

One thing I've never understood is how you get meaning out of that. I mean, people say you're supposed to make your own meaning in life, but how? How do you really derive meaning from the meaninglessness that we are accidental and purposeless, with nowhere to go?

john evans said...

This is the best book I have read about making meaning--

The Atheist's Way: Living Well Without Gods
by Eric Maisel

But to your question--
“How do you really derive meaning from the meaninglessness that we are accidental and purposeless, with nowhere to go?”

It is all about attitude. The point is life is as full of meaning as you want it to be. The loved ones in your life are meaningful are they not? The writing you do is meaningful to you, right? The fact that if the dice were rolled again that we wouldn’t be here is all the more reason to stand in awe and appreciation of the fact that you are here!

Unknown said...

But even if you change your attitude...I mean, it means nothing. It's accidental, isn't it? Your attitude is chemical stuff in your brain which evolved by accident?

john evans said...

But even if you change your attitude...I mean, it means nothing. It's accidental, isn't it? Your attitude is chemical stuff in your brain which evolved by accident?

Accidental can be magical. Accidental meetings can turn into the deepest of friendships or the most passionate of love affairs. But I am not sure “accidental” is the right way to describe the universe. The word “accident” conjures up images of broken glass or spilled milk. The universe and our existence seems light years beyond such imagery to me. No, the evidence does not allow us to honestly say this was all planned by some giant invisible god-thing, but I prefer to think of it all as a mind-blowingly wondrous mystery rather than a mere accident.

john evans said...

And it DOES mean something. It means EVERYTHING. It does to me anyway.

For example, my 17 year old son and I went on a 3-4 mile run christmas morning. I was telling him how cool it would be if we trained for a marathon together and this would be the first training run. The marathon is almost a full year away so ther will be hundreds of runs over the course of the coming year to prepare for the “destination” or “goal” of the actual marathon. But as we ran I recalled the idea that THIS was it. The journey was the destination. THAT moment was as precious as any marathon. By being aware of that fact I was able to make time stand still in a way. To just be in the moment. To enjoy being with my son on a cold Christmas morning. Talking between heavy breathing and jumping over patches of snow and ice. Nothing more meaningful than that.

Unknown said...

If it doesn't happen on purpose, isn't it by definition an accident?

Even if you'd prefer to call it a mind-blowing wondrous mystery, it's still by definition an accident.

john evans said...

Maybe. But I make my own meaning and it is more meaningful to me to think of it as “wondrous and mysterious” than merely “accidental”. I don’t think this is a descent into fantasy or delusion, as I am not claiming any knowledge not backed up by evidence, I just choose the more poetic way of seeing reality over the less poetic way.

Unknown said...

"But I make my own meaning "

Isn't that relativism? And relativism self-refutes!

...and with that, I will be gone for a week. I'm going on a mission trip to Mexico. :)

john evans said...

Are you saying that you don’t determine what is meaningful to you?

If relativism clearly self-defeats why is there a debate about truth being relative or absolute?

Seems to me that truth can be defined as that which most closely aligns with reality. Since we filter reality through our limited senses we have a limited understanding of reality/truth. So though I can say with extreme confidence that I am sitting at my desk while typing this I cannot be “absolutely” sure I am not dreaming this or I am not myself a dream of some sort.

Because we are merely fallible humans, the “absolute” is technically beyond us. However in our daily affairs, it is quite reasonable to say things like it is absolutely true that I am sitting at my desk typing this.

The idea of “absolute truth” is like the ideas of “god” and invisible pink unicorns in that none of these can be proven to exist or not to exist.

Unknown said...

"Are you saying that you don’t determine what is meaningful to you?"

Something might have meaning to me whereas someone else might not care so much about it - i.e. I love my cats, but a total stranger might just think, okay, that's just another cat - but that's much different from making my own meaning to life.

"If relativism clearly self-defeats why is there a debate about truth being relative or absolute?"

Because people do not follow their beliefs to their logical end.
Person 1: There is no absolute truth. (relativism)
Person 2: Is that absolutely true?
Argument end.

john evans said...

You say, “I love my cats, but a total stranger might just think, okay, that's just another cat - but that's much different from making my own meaning to life.”

How so? Any other words can be used in place of cats, including “my life”. YOU determine what is meaningful to YOU. How could it be any other way?

As to your “proof” that relativism is self defeating...Here is how I would say it...

Person 1(me): There is no evidence of absolute truth. (relativism)

Person 2(you): Is that absolutely true?

Person 1(me): I never said it was absolutely true. I said there was no evidence of it. Show me convincing evidence of it and I will change my stance.

Person 2(you): I can’t provide you such evidence. No one can. There is none.

Argument end.

Unknown said...

If your belief consists of not believing that there is any truth, then perhaps you should reconsider your beliefs. If your belief itself isn't sure if it's right, then I'd say get a different belief in which you are certain!

And making up a meaning to life, and determining what is meaningful to you in said life are two different things. My entire life is meaningful because I was created and I was created with a purpose. However, the things in this life that have meaning to me are my family, my friends, etc who have meaning to me because of my relationships with them.

john evans said...

Truth is a funny thing. I wonder if we would be better off using the word reality instead of truth. For there is definitely (it seems) reality and then there is our different perceptions of that reality. You look at it and think your perception is correct and call it truth. I think my perception is correct and call it truth. We may both be wrong but reality remains. So instead of talking about truth, absolute truth, relative truth and so on we should maybe talk about reality and evidence that supports our understanding of reality.

I would say your life is meaningful not because you were created by some invisible cloud god but because YOU find it meaningful and OTHERS find it meaningful to them. You were not created for a purpose, you were born as a result of favorable biological conditions brought on by love and lust (hopefully). YOU decide your purpose. YOU are powerful, not some god. YOU are in charge of your life and YOU impact those around you. That power comes from your choices, your attitude, not some deity.

Unknown said...

"Truth is a funny thing. I wonder if we would be better off using the word reality instead of truth. For there is definitely (it seems) reality and then there is our different perceptions of that reality. You look at it and think your perception is correct and call it truth. I think my perception is correct and call it truth. We may both be wrong but reality remains. So instead of talking about truth, absolute truth, relative truth and so on we should maybe talk about reality and evidence that supports our understanding of reality."

Makes sense to me. But then, that reality which really is real, is truth. So I'm not quite sure what the difference is.

"I would say your life is meaningful not because you were created by some invisible cloud god but because YOU find it meaningful and OTHERS find it meaningful to them."
I find it meaningful because I was formed by a God who cares about me and I find others meaningful because they were created by the same God. This is why I think all humans are intrinsically valuable. I might personally enjoy the company of my best friend more than that of a total stranger, but I would say that the total stranger is also meaningful because God created him.
"You were not created for a purpose, you were born as a result of favorable biological conditions brought on by love and lust (hopefully)."
That's rather depressing. I'm an accident.
"YOU decide your purpose. YOU are powerful, not some god. YOU are in charge of your life and YOU impact those around you. That power comes from your choices, your attitude, not some deity."
I have studied multiple worldviews and come to the conclusion that God is God and God is truth (reality, if you will.) I am in charge of my life, because God did not create me as a robot. I do impact those around me, because I choose to live my life in a Godly fashion and to love others as I love myself. It does come from my attitude and my choices, which is a conclusion which I have come to in the past year or so as I realized that I did actually have the power to choose my attitude and to choose the way i respond to things. Even when I'm frustrated, I can choose to smile. Even when I'm angry, I can choose to forgive. But the reason I do so is because I want to live my life as Jesus lived his while he was on the earth.